First, is the way you want to live according to the Bible and God's values? If not, please change your goals, because you couldn't possibly be happier than when doing His will. Read more about God's will from the Bible.
Secondly, what is preventing you from living, or why are you feeling bad? Are you continuing in living in sin, thus breaking your most precious relationship: the one you have with God? Do you have some old lies or some old bad deeds in your closet? Compensate them to show you regret! Four times the amount you stole is a biblical way of compensating. Never talk badly about anyone, not even about Britney!
Thirdly, forgive those who have done you wrong. There isn't anything that wouldn't be better after you forgive. Remember forgiving is sometimes hard, as you have to accept you cannot ever use the situation for your benefit, nor can you expect any compensations. You just make your friend free.
After this ... pray and go and meet your friends :D (some, including me, are also available on the internet)
